3 Easy Steps to Host an Amazing Friendsgiving

friendsgivingFriendsgiving has become a beloved tradition for bringing together college students, neighbors, and community friends to celebrate gratitude before the holiday rush. Whether you’re gathering around a dorm common room table or squeezing everyone into a small apartment, the spirit of thankfulness doesn’t require a perfect feast or elaborate planning.

With a few smart strategies, you can host a memorable Friendsgiving that focuses on what matters most: sharing good food and appreciation with the people who’ve become your chosen family.

3 Easy Steps to Host an Amazing Friendsgiving

  1. Make it potluck-style. Ask each friend to bring one dish—whether it’s a side, dessert, or drinks. This splits the cost and cooking effort so you’re not overwhelmed or broke. You can just handle the main item like a rotisserie chicken or simple pasta dish.
  2. Use disposable everything. Paper plates, plastic utensils, and solo cups mean zero cleanup stress. You can find affordable fall-themed options at dollar stores if you want it to look festive without the dishwashing aftermath.
  3. Plan for low-key fun. Every party needs a fun activity, but don’t stress over it. Go for a casual vibe with a festive playlist, karaoke, board games, an outdoor game of touch football, or make a craft together.

BONUS TIP: Don’t forget to be thankful. 1 Thessalonians 5:18 reminds us to give thanks in all circumstances. Take a moment to go around the table (or couch) and tell each other something you’re thankful for this Thanksgiving.

At the end of the day, the best Friendsgiving is the one where everyone leaves feeling grateful for the time spent together, not the one that stressed you out trying to make it perfect.

Happy Thanksgiving, from your friends at the United Methodist Higher Education Foundation!